Quick question.
If someone looked at your calendar and your bank statement, what would they say you truly value?
Not what you say you value. Not what you journal about. What you actually protect.
This one stings a bit, but it's useful.
And boundaries are not a personality trait. They are a system.
When you don't have a system, you end up with default priorities.
And default priorities usually belong to:
- the loudest person
- the nearest deadline
- the most urgent message
- the thing that feels easiest to complete
So your day gets filled. And your life stays unfunded.